The first cancer was treated by a Lumpectomy and radiation. Testing showed unlikely to return. This was a difficult time as my only brother was diagnosed with lung cancer at the same time. He lost his battle in September of 2017, whilst I was still undergoing my treatment. In July of 2023 the Triple Negative appeared 4 weeks after my Mammogram and Ultrasound 2x2 cm very scary scenario. Treatment was full on, 12xweekly and 4 x 3 weekly the latter being the “red devil” of chemo. I then had a double mastectomy and Diep reconstruction 30/1/24. My recovery period has been long and arduous, and still recovering.
I have slowed down considerably. I have met some amazingly positive woman along the way. My wonderful team of professionals, and my breast care nurse, have come along for the ride 2nd time around. The uplifting positive women at the Kay Van Norton Centre for Wellbeing have played a pivotal role in my mental health being as good as can be.
“It is what it is” It’s a hectic ride. Ask lots of questions, surround yourself with positive people. You can't afford to have “negative Nellys” around. Some people cannot handle what you are going through, that’s ok, but give them a wide berth.
Most importantly be kind to yourself.